Today is the day when you eat black-eyed peas for good luck and you kissed someone at midnight to ensure that you won’t be lonely in the new year.  Today you will make your New Year’s Resolutions and claim it to be better than the year before.  You might talk about how horrible the previous year was and how glad you are to be done with it.  You will say the new year has to be better!  It’s a new page in a new chapter and you are ready for it, or are you?

I myself had a trying 2017.  I lost two important people in my life to death within months of each other. I was drowning in grief daily.  I was barely able to function for a while. I actually still have days where the tears flow and I can’t stop them.  I filed for bankruptcy.  I took on a second job to replace the social security income I lost having had two daughters graduate high school within a year of each other. It was a year that you would think I would like to forget…

But 2017 also brought me answered prayers.

It brought me precious memories that can never be taken away. It brought me spiritual growth that I’ve never had before.  It even brought me to a new level of physical fitness. (I finished a half marathon and a full marathon.)  I had friendships grow through prayer.  I had the Lord by my side through the ups and the downs.  He was constantly taking care of me, sending people my way when I needed them most, whispering to me that He would make beauty from the ashes, and holding me close even when I didn’t want Him to anymore.  2017 may have been one of my hardest years but it was also one of my best.  The hard parts are meant to grow us as people and as Christians.

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The ONLY way I made it through was with the Lord and the only way I will make it through this next year is with Him too.  My resolution is to grow in my relationship with the Lord and leave it all in His hands.  That’s really all anyone needs because if you are growing with Him, then everything else in your life falls into place just as He has designed for you.  He already knows the future.  There were times when I asked Him, “How is this for my good, Lord?”  And I may never know the answer to that this side of heaven but I trust Him.  Isaiah 66:9 lets us know that the Lord will not cause pain without allowing something new in.  I want to be ready for whatever that “new” is! He wants what is best for us and this year I want whatever it is He wants for me.  That doesn’t come by sitting idly by though.  We need to be in His word and stay in constant communication with Him.

Let your resolution be to grow in the Lord this year and see what amazing things He does for you!

Read What Will You Commit to in the New Year? for my thoughts going into 2019!